iroha investigates: How Sex Toys Can Improve Penetration & Orgasm Frequency

Sexual pleasure is a personal and unique experience for each individual. In our recent survey, “iroha investigates: Is Penetration Always Pleasurable?”, we explored how sex toys may influence women’s enjoyment of penetrative sex. 

By comparing the experiences of those who use sex toys with those who don’t, we gained insight into how these products might enhance sexual satisfaction and increase the frequency of orgasms. While correlation doesn’t always imply causation, our findings suggest a strong link between sex toy use and improved sexual well-being.

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Key Findings from the Survey

Our global survey included over 600 women from the US, the UK, Italy, Spain, France, and Germany and explored their experiences with sex toys and penetrative sex. Here’s a summary of what we found:

Enjoyment of Penetrative Sex

The survey highlights a clear difference in the enjoyment of penetrative sex between women who use sex toys and those who don’t:

Enjoyment of Penetrative Sex: Toy Users vs. Non-Users

A notable 75% of women who use sex toys find penetrative sex either very or somewhat enjoyable, compared to just 47% of non-users. Additionally, fewer sex toy users (6%) find penetration "not very enjoyable," compared to 8% of non-users. This suggests that women who use sex toys are more likely to enjoy penetrative sex, possibly due to the additional stimulation and comfort sex toys can provide.

Another reason that sex toy users find penetrative sex more enjoyable could be the user’s understanding of their body. Through self-pleasure and the use of pleasure items, one can truly explore their pleasure points and use what they learned during penetrative sex. The ability to communicate one’s pleasure can be a turn on and an act of confidence leading to more satisfying penetrative sex. 

Frequency of Orgasm

The survey also reveals differences in how often women experience orgasms, depending on their use of sex toys:

Frequency of Orgasm: Toy Users vs. Non-Users

More than half (56%) of women who use sex toys report frequent orgasms, compared to 31% of non-users. While we can’t conclude that sex toys cause more frequent orgasms, these findings suggest a potential link between sex toy use and increased sexual satisfaction.

Why Sex Toys Might Make a Difference

Sex toys may enhance penetrative sex by offering additional stimulation, reducing discomfort, and allowing for more exploration. Here are some reasons why using sex toys might be beneficial:

Extra Stimulation

Sex toys can provide new sensations that enhance the experience of penetrative sex:

  • Enhanced Sensations: Toys like vibrators offer targeted vibrations, increasing pleasure during penetration and potentially leading to more satisfying orgasms.
  • Variety: With a range of textures and vibrations, toys introduce new sensations that can make each experience more exciting.
  • Customizable: Many sex toys have adjustable settings, so you can tailor the stimulation to your preferences.

Increased Confidence

Using sex toys can improve sexual confidence by encouraging self-exploration:

  • Self-Discovery: Sex toys allow women to learn more about their bodies, helping them identify what feels good and building confidence in expressing their desires. According to the iroha investigates survey, 45% of women globally reported that masturbation has helped them feel more confident. 
  • Reduced Pressure: Sex toys allow women to learn more about their bodies, helping them identify what feels good, and reducing the pressure during sex. Consistent pleasure from toys allows for a more relaxed and enjoyable experience, with 62% of women stating that masturbation improved their overall sex life, a figure that rises to 75% among women aged 25-34.
  • Positive Body Image: Additionally, masturbation and sex toys can positively affect body image. Our survey found that 45% of women said masturbation has helped improve how they feel about their bodies, with younger women seeing the most benefit—52% of those aged 18-24 and 66% of those aged 25-34 experienced enhanced body image. By fostering a more positive relationship with their bodies, sex toys can help women feel more comfortable and confident during sex.

Exploration and Variety

Sex toys open up opportunities for exploration and sexual discovery:

  • Discover New Pleasures: Experimenting with different types of stimulation through toys can help you discover new erogenous zones and preferences.
  • Solo Play: Masturbating with sex toys helps women explore their desires, leading to more fulfilling partnered sex.
  • Partnered Play: Introducing toys into partnered sex can add excitement, variety, and new sensations, enhancing the overall experience.

Comfort and Relief

Sex toys can also help alleviate discomfort and improve the experience of penetrative sex:

  • Vaginal Dryness: Sex toys can encourage arousal through targeted stimulation, which naturally boosts the body’s production of moisture. Toys designed for clitoral or G-spot stimulation can increase blood flow, promoting natural lubrication and making penetrative sex more comfortable for those experiencing dryness. Additionally, pairing these toys with a water-based lubricant can further enhance comfort during use.
  • Pain Relief: For conditions like vaginismus or pelvic discomfort, certain sex toys can help alleviate pain by allowing for controlled, gentle stimulation.
  • Gentle Introduction: If penetration causes anxiety or discomfort, starting with a smaller, less intimidating toy, such as the iroha koharu, can help you get used to the sensation gradually.

Conclusion: Embracing Sexual Wellness

The iroha investigates survey shows that using sex toys could help make penetrative sex more enjoyable and lead to more frequent orgasms. While this doesn’t mean sex toys are the only cause of better experiences, there’s a strong link between their use and improved sexual satisfaction.

If you’re new to sex toys, starting with something gentle and non-intimidating like the iroha koharu can be a great first step. It is designed to help you feel more comfortable with self-pleasure and penetration, offering a soft and approachable way to explore your desires.

At iroha, we are here to support your journey to greater pleasure and confidence. By focusing on self-care and self-exploration, you can take charge of your sexual well-being and enjoy a more satisfying sex life.

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