How to Find the Right Toys for Women and Other Pleasure-Seekers

Nowadays, when people make a purchase for either themselves or others, they often spend time researching to make sure they are getting the right thing. With so many options available, it can be difficult to know which item is the right one, or where to begin researching. This applies to self-pleasure items too. Finding the right toy for women, or anyone who is interested in self-pleasure can be a challenge. However, that doesn’t have to be the case anymore, in this blog, we are going to share with you some tips on how to find the right toy for women and anyone who is interested in self-pleasure.

Keep on reading to find out more about how to find the best toy for you or others!


Toys for Women and All Those Who Are Interested

The topic of self-pleasure and masturbation is slowly being brought to the spotlight as we learn more about the benefits of self-pleasure to our health and overall wellbeing. As society becomes more open to masturbation, many brands have come out with amazing self-pleasure items to accommodate the growing demands of self-pleasure.

Self-pleasure items and sex toys have come a long way, and they will only get better as technology advances. While we are excited to see all the amazing toys that are coming, we understand that for many people, finding the right toy, right now can be a difficult task, whether it is for themselves, the women in their life, or for those that are interested in self-pleasure.

That’s where iroha comes in, as part of our goal and vision, we hope to create a society where anyone can feel comfortable with their sexuality and be able to take the necessary steps to look after their sexual health and overall wellness. One way to do so is through self-pleasure, either with a sex toy or not. As a brand, we hope to inspire and normalize the topic of self-pleasure and support those who are interested in improving their self-care and self-love journey through self-pleasure. To do so, we highly recommend trying self-pleasure items, but we understand it can be stressful as there are so many options, and not knowing what type of self-pleasure products works best for you. So iroha would like to share some tips that can guide you in finding the right toy.

Finding The Right Self-Pleasure Item

It can be quite nerve wracking for someone who is curious and new to self-pleasure to find a sex toy for themselves or others, especially when they are not sure where to begin. While for those of you who already have a few sex toys, it is even more important to do research before buying because you want to make sure you are getting one that meets your needs differently to the ones you already own, one that is of good quality, and maybe even an upgrade of your previous ones. iroha is here to help you with a few tips on finding the right sex toy for women and anyone who’s interested in self-pleasure.

Here are a few things you should ask yourself when searching for the perfect self-pleasure item:

  1. Do you want something that vibrates?

    Self-pleasure items do not equal vibrators. While there are a lot of amazing vibrators on the market, that doesn’t mean everyone wants a vibrator. So ask yourself, if you want something that can vibrate or not. That being said, many vibrators can also be used as a non-vibrating toy when it is switched off.

  2. What is your budget?

    Just like anything else, price is important. For many beginners, a reasonable price is important, especially with self-pleasure items. For those that are experienced, maybe you want an upgrade, so possibly you are willing to spend more. There are some items that can be a splurge, but they can also be worth it with a drastic increase in pleasure. At the same time, there are more affordable options for those who just want to try something to see if they like it or not. Knowing your budget and how much you are willing to spend for it is very important.

  3. Would you like it to be insertable, or not, or both?

    Similar to question number 1 (vibrating or not), do you want an insertable self-pleasure item? For some people, they might prefer external stimulation, such as clitorial stimulation focused sex toys, while others like insertable ones. There are also some that can be used both for internal and external stimulation, it is all up to personal preferences.

  4. Does it need to be water-proof?

    Having a water-proof sex toy means you can use them in the shower and in the bath. For many people, being able to truly relax and enjoy themselves in the bath is very important, if that is the case for you, make sure your self-pleasure item is water-proof.

  5. Do you prefer rechargeable or battery-operated items?

    For those that are looking into getting a vibrator, some people prefer battery-operated sex toys because there’s less hassle with the cables, while others don’t mind, and might even prefer rechargeable items. Oftentimes the rechargeable ones might be a bit more expensive, but they can also be stronger in power and have a longer running time compared to battery-operated ones. So just like anything else, it is a preference.

Other important things to consider when choosing a sex toy are; the color and appearance - if you like how it looks, if the item is body safe, and so on. Also, once you try one self-pleasure item, the chances of you wanting to try others are very high. So don’t limit yourself, pick up a few if you are thinking about exploring self-pleasure and have the budget. Or stock up on some so that you can give them out as self-care gifts.


In conclusion, we hope that this article has provided information on how to find the right sex toy for women and anyone else who is interested in self-pleasure. Remember the important thing is to make sure that you are feeling good about yourself and enjoying self-pleasure. If you want to try self-pleasure without a sex toy, that is totally ok too, but for those who are looking into getting one, make sure to ask yourself those all the questions mentioned here when researching.

If you are thinking of buying some self-pleasure items as gifts, check out our blog: iroha Gifts for Every Type of Friend! We all know how hard it is to find a gift and this blog will help you choose the perfect gift for every type of friend you have.